Bella, just wanted to say hello and tell you I am here to listen and support. I really cannot add anymore than what other's have stated. My post would have been much along the lines of what Chicory stated, that it sounds like your friend's reaction and words come from a very deep pain having an addicted father. While I realize her reaction felt strong, please try to realize her childhood had to be pretty brutal watching that so give her a break on the roughness. It sounds like she was worried for you and your future and you cannot fault that in a friend, at least she cares!