Originally Posted by
zoso77 
That "experience" is huge, Bella. And it's very real. It's partly why I said that she may not be capable of nuance.
Anyways, you have to follow your own path, and we'll be here while you do.
Thank you zoso .. I am strong enough to leave if he relapses again. I will never let this ruin/control my life. I just am not ready to do so now. I don't think he deserves that now. Everyone's entitled to mess up, even though I know that doesn't make things right.
I'd be lost without this site, most people have been nothing but helpful.