I am sorry. Is it possible she simply misunderstood what you need. I have found that in my life there have been times I have had to say, "What I really need at this time is your support. I will come to decisions in my own time but what I really need now is just your support and friendship."
Sometimes by being very direct about what you need it can be a relief to both of you.
I think it's great you are being open and honest. Keep in mind however, you love this person. Others who express their opinion may love you but not him and worry about if this is good for you or not. Loving an addict is hard, that is for sure.
Tight Hugs, we are here for you!