Originally Posted by
happybeingme 
my biggest feeling is relief.
Now how do I keep my boundaries intact without harming my relationship with my sisters. Especially since my mom is living with one of them out of necessity though my sister isnt real happy about it
The feeling of relief often tells me that my decision was right.
I'm managing to keep my boundaries intact because they're working i.e. my lack of contact seems more peaceful and serene than the opposite.
I don't make NO contact, I have limited contact, but my boundary includes putting me and my immediate family (my children for example) first. I do not negotiate around that. It means my Sisters have to do a bit more but their boundaries are their business.
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