Recovery takes hard work and time for both sides of the A street...he is just starting the process and has not yet recovered! Of course he is still quacking! Doesnt mean he hasnt had an AH HA moment! Discecting his every word does no one any good...and keeps you focused on him... Your smart to keep the focus on yourself and more will be revealed...Progress not perfection? Let go and let God? One day at a time? Detatch with LOVE?
You are still going for a ride for a while, and, as you are well aware, there are no guarantees. I hope for you and him and your marriage that he works those steps like his life depends on it...but we know frim our own personal battle...change is hard and sometimes we stumble...but as long as we get back up...there is hope!
You have your program to handle this and will do what is right for you!