Originally Posted by
ScottFromWI 
And you are getting a lot of it - rational advice from many different people. It seems that you are hell-bent on meeting this woman tomorrow regardless of what we think, and your motivations are questionable at best. I'd recommend you read through everything you've written in the past week here and see what your true intentions are.
I think you are right. I'm getting a lot of information, but it's based upon the word "amends." Which is apparently a step in AA. I'm not doing the steps. I'm not doing AA. So does anyone's opinion change if I call it...?
"Advice on telling a friend that you are an alcoholic"
"Advice on telling a lover you are an alcoholic"
"How to tell people you are an alcoholic"
That's really what I made this thread for. I want people to give me advice on HOW to tell her tomorrow. One thing that I've seen you guys say is I have to make sure that she's not getting hurt in the process. I am capable of doing that.