i would advise talking about each amend you wish to make over with your sponsor before going off to make amends as it can be really differclut at times
for example
a man cheats on his wife the wife doesnt know about it and nor does the other persons partner who he cheated with know anything about it
to make an amend would cause 2 innocent people much pain so for things of this nature a sponcor or a much older wiser memeber of aa should be found for advice