He is always remorseful. He hadn't been working a program except going to therapy and doing some meditation. He's supposedly recommitting himself to AA and getting a sponsor. I feel like I just don't care. I mean, it's sad that he will lose everything if he continues down this path but there's nothing I can do about that. I think this time of year is a trigger for him as his mom died of cancer the summer he turned 11. I am going to mention this to him. I understand self-destructive behavior that crops up due to past events. Mine used to happen in January. Luckily I'm aware of it now, but it took a long time to work through and even realize what was going on with me.
I truly hope he can get it together.