Would you consider this emotional abuse?
AH stopped drinking after a DUI and job loss about six months ago. Things have continued to be difficult between us and not too much genuine remorse from him for prior behavior (IMO)
This morning, very small argument but he hangs up on me. Extreme to me, but I get on with my day. No contact. Now 11pm and still no phone call & he does not come home.
It seems to follow same old pattern of leave/refuse to speak to me. Like he's trying to punish me! Ugh- I am feeling better and stronger with a job & a plan but STILL- I wanted it to work. Really, I feel blindsided as he hasn't done this in months. Everyone says I'll know when enough is enough. But still, fear of how ugly things will get keeps me here.