My anger towards him is building more and more he rang me last night very drunk distraught over his uncles death. I spoke to him for over 2 hours he told me he missed me as his best friend and to me that's says he just wants to keep me around but without any commitment to me or the kids. I will support him through the funeral but after that he needs to learn the reality of life on his own. He wants to be on his own so he can drink well he's got it!!!!