Hi Tiel
I think whenever we get sober our perception changes...the trouble is you'll find it keeps changing for a while.
I usually recommend waiting a little while until you're sure who sober you is before you make any life changing decisions.
If it's stimulating intellectual conversation you want I'm sure there's some around SR..usually
You never know, BF may just follow your lead and stop the weed, and become a little bit more interesting himself?
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