Doc, I think you belong here. I have been reading your posts, not responding too much, because quite frankly I had a lot on my plate this week, or should I say this month.
I'm a RA. When I came here I was in the newcomer section, then I found this place. It's my haven. I questioned a lot of things. I didn't know if my ex was really abusive, was I the abusive one, if I was an alcoholic in denial, if my ex was an alcoholic in denial. I didn't know much of anything.
Like I said, I had a really bad month. I realize now that I was seeing black and white, and not seeing some gray areas. I realized that because I have been a member here, and posting here.
I know if I was posting my stuff in the newcomer section, I would just be told that I was right, and that I am doing the best that I can. See, here, I couldn't do that. I was called on things, and I appreciated it. I don't want to be right, I want to recover, and I can see that in you also.