to stay or go?
avsml67 & ggnewm–
I am at the same place as you two. My BF of 3 years has always had a love/hate relationship with alcohol. 2 years ago, his sister was killed in a car accident (the other driver's fault). Ever since then, his dependence on alchohol has increased. He goes in phases where things are going well and he seems to have control of his addiction. But days happen, like last night, where he not only came home very drunk, but he lied about where he was. He is impossible to talk to seriously about the situation (sober or not). I know it is up to him to face his fear and his addiction. But how much it too much? How much can I stand before I leave? I want to be supportive and help him through this. I feel lost.