This forum is full of positive suggestions on how to cope and live better. It takes some effort, but we don't have to stay in a self imposed hell if we are willing to try something different. If you are ready to let go of the misery, resentment, and self pity, I recommend that you take some positive action like seeking counselling, or support from a group. Changing a law isn't going to help you get over what's bothering you.
Pain is a neccessary part of life, but misery is optional. Hugs, Magic