How long should someone have to wait for someone else to sort out their addictions?
The answer could be a lifetime, but should you have to risk wasting your life, waiting for someone else to sort themselves out? If he has no intention to seek help for his addiction, then your wait I fear could be a long one!!
YOU need to look after YOU . . . live your life and be happy, instead of waiting around for him to sort himself out, which could be never!!