Originally Posted by JessicaNAJ
His gas and electric is about to be shut off, his license was suspended because he couldn't pay his car insurance, He has some bills going into collections, he has no money for food, he can't sleep at night, he's still laid off......
Oh, woe is me.
And he told you this for what purpose? To tell you how he's going to sort all of this out? To suck you back in? To get you to help him out? To make excuses to drink?
Hon, his mess and his to deal with. Why should you feel sorry for him? If he doesn't buy booze, he can afford food. If he doesn't drink booze, he can hold down a job. Choices = consequences. He is experiencing the consequences of his choices.
Hang in, hon. This is not yours to deal with, or even think about.
STEP AWAY FROM THE ALCOHOLIC!
Love
Minnie
xxx