So glad you found some help and insight from your college! Right now focusing on your classes is paramount. Might be a lot to juggle, parents, college, love all at the same time right now. Listen to your instinct, it might be telling you that it's not time to cement this relationship. Time to take it slow while you are figuring out the whole ACOA thing. When I was in school, and with my fiance and struggling with my parents, I had a lot on my plate and I remember being so overwhelmed I had panic attacks and needed medical help. I had to reel back and let life unfold. Good luck.