Thanks for the link. I have a private blog that I have kept for the past 4 years. It has a lot of stuff about nights he was out, weekends he was gone. I even put on my phone calendar his initials and the word "out" to have a record of how often he was gone.
He has the best divorce attorney in town, I have a friend who isn't charging me anything, but isn't very skilled.. AH is self-employed, doesn't work much and doesn't report all his income.