Originally Posted by
jennyv 
I think he abandoned me a long time ago. He has no faith, and won't attend church with me. I ask him every week. Occasionally he says maybe, but when Sunday morning rolls around, henever goes. Alcohol stole my husband, wrecked my marriage. I'm angry! And I'm hurt that he doesn't even care.
im so sorry jennyv- My AH knows how much I believe and for years he would use it against me. He would make sure to tell me I was disobeying if I wanted to leave etc etc. He manipulated me every which way possible with religion and it kept me miserable bc I was always trying to do my best.
Keep in mind it takes 61 days to go through once you do your part and if you need more time to make a decision wait. I learned not to do anything with out calmness. Could he be blowing smoke and wanting to hurt you?
It sounds like the ball is in your court.