Originally Posted by
Hammer 
Do you know the Promises?
You MAY just be experiencing them.
This one in particular . . . .
"We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves."
This helps a lot. I stayed because I felt that this was where God put me, and there was something I needed to learn. I didn't feel like I was supposed to end this marriage. I realize now that it probably wasn't my place to end it, and I never had the strength to. Maybe I have suffered enough and done everything that I could to save my marriage, and this is my wide open door to go find happiness.