I am actively working my sobriety by other methods that AA. I do appreciate the principles of AA and have attended many meetings in the past and read and studied the BB, however I'm not a 'regular' AA person. Rational Recovery works best for my brain. I seek new justifications to remain sober daily. I love every minute of it!!
Alanon and Naranon have saved me from my co-dependent ways in the past. I need to pick up Co-Dependent no more again and refresh my attitude toward this situation. Mom in playing victim and it is hard not to get sucked in. Especially when she thinks she is just an innocent by-stander to everything that is falling apart around her. Life happens and we have to be strong enough to hit the curve balls. Sitting in your kitchen alone getting smashed having a pity party isn't the way.