Originally Posted by jennyv

I want to grow old with someone who loves me, who respects me and who wants to be with me. Not someone who abandons me to go get drunk 2-4 nights a week. He's kicking me out of the house in 90 days, he doesn't want to pay child support or alimony.. I'm broke and scared. And I'm hurt. I should have filed years ago, but didn't. Now he filed and I feel like I've been hit. Blindsided. Is it really the alcohol that has made him so selfish? Or is it really the 'real' him?