Thank you Dee.
I was just thinking of a book I read years ago. The stages of grief was the subject. I sort of think that maybe if your loved one is an alcoholic/addict, you have to go through those stages. so you can get to acceptance, that we are powerless. then we do what we can for ourselves.
I waffle between anger, and depression. oh, and trying to bargain with God.
Thanks for being here, I am so grateful for SR. I would be a basket case if not for SR.