Originally Posted by minnie
Even if your H gets into recovery tomorrow, do you think that you'll get the relationship you want anytime soon?
No, but it would make it easier to accept what he is capable of giving. Right now, I'm just toooo guarded.
Are you going to meet the person you deserve whilst you still have ties, emotional or legal, to your H?
I don't know.... What if I have and I'm letting that person slip through my fingers b/c I'm still with someone incapable of loving.
Thanks for the shoulder Minnie. I have to keep telling myself that "this too shall pass".