Alcoholics make everyone else feel like only they can make mistakes. But everything is also everyone elses fault.
my ABF makes me feel like a horrible mother all the time. "She never whines until
you get home!" and that's just when hes "sober" I feel your pain. You are not a bad mother. My mom left my twin brother and I in the car at that age and my brother climbed into the front seat and drove the car through our fence...so, it happens!
(and to be honest, I'm surprised I haven't done that yet!)