Originally Posted by
story74 
This one woman decided to tell me that she was an alcoholic, and that 4 years ago her and her husband had a discussion. She asked him why he was still with her, and he said because he loved her. And the next day she straightened up and hadn't had a drink since. I immediately got the impression that she was basically telling me, I wasn't supportive of my husband.
That's the same impression I got. Would be different if she were relating to YOU as the loved one of an A, but she wasn't. Her reference point was as the A. Please watch your back if you have to deal with her again.
To the topic, if not painful it has to be earth shaking. Something stronger than the prehistoric survival instinct that has been activated by a hijacked brain.