Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
Do you think T was pointing out that with a healthy non-A partner you could be "yourself" but with an A you have to change to detach?
I don''t know. I hadn't thought about it that way. I'm trying to focus on being my authentic self for me and staying on my side of the street. We also talked about expectations and how the whole thing is a process. I can't expect to start a marathon and cross the finish line in five minutes.