Originally Posted by
MissFixit Sorry to hear that.
Keep your anti-denial/BS hat on. It is so easy to slip back into that world. I did.
I wouldn't buy the two drink thing. They all have two drinks. Not that it matters, but it was the little things I accepted that led to the BIGGER things that I accepted. Eventually, doing mental gymnastics to accept things...denial again.
Hugs to you!
Ha, I did ask him that! I said, "f you're going to be completely honest, be honest. Was it really two?" He said it was two big ones, which is more like 4 or 5. I'm glad he told me the truth about that. And I am keeping my BS detector on. I can't live a life filled with anxiety and anger again.