When you look for professional help, I asked about finding a counselor or therapist here and received some really good replies:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...counselor.html
AA (alcoholics anonymous) and Alanon (for our own recovery) are two very good places to be. LOTS of good people have this disease. No judgements and lots of support.
Alcoholics Anonymous : Local Resources that provide A.A. Meeting Information (U.S./Canada) http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/local-meetings
Welcome to SR. Stick around.