I was married to XAH for ten yrs. it was totally dysfunctional from day one.
we were two sick people just waiting to find each other.
I do not regret staying in the marriage as long as I did. even if I did regret staying, I could never change the facts as they happened.
I married my XAH knowing he was an alcoholic. thought I could straighten it out since I was so mighty powerful. clueless!
so, I can now say that my recovery is a gift that I was able to carry away from a devastating relationship.
he helped me save myself from the brokenness that I already had before I married him.