I read that book about 30 years ago and loved it. It helped me alot after I first divorce. Now I am 57 years old and going threw the same stuff , I just recently left my Mexican bf/h of 3 years and came back to the states. I had something with him that I had never had before. true true love and his addiction to coke , crystal destroyed our relationship. I am so so sad. I sometimes think that some of the things he said and did to me in the end, he did on purpose to make me leave because he knew he could not take care of me the way he wanted to. This makes me even sadder because I did and I know still does love me it is a terrible shame that addiction has destroyed our relationship. I am so very sad and alone and i cry every day for what we had together. i feel lost and empty