Thanks hopeful4- When I came home I got out my journal and read all the things that hurt me and how I was feeling at the time to remind myself.
It really made me realize how he is capable of remember what he wants to remember. I had no faith he was even going to go and didn't remind him of the event.
People who hadn't met him before were telling me how nice he was and blah blah I was like yea great ball of fun he is. rolling my eyes.