often times,
a using addict cannot enable another addicts addiction the way a sober person can.
They have to put too much energy into feeding their own dragon to also feed one that belongs to another person.
I understand not confronting and inviting lies, but you are allowing him to lie to you. I allowed AH to lie to me for a very long time. I believe another addict would call him out, because they would be jealous he didn't share. He doesn't have to share his drugs with you! why would he want a girl who he had to feed when he has you and you feed yourself?
just my thoughts.
hugs. I've been on both sides of this fence and it sucks!!!