I think it is great that you took a stand for what was right and comfortable for you and your husband has respected your position. Staying in the program and time will both, hopefully give him the best shot possible and allow you to see by his actions when you can start rebuilding trust.
I'm sorry about your son, but it sounds really great that he was diagnosed early and that he is getting assistance that will help him as he grows. I know so many moms who face challenges with getting their kids tested when issues crop up in primary grades. Your awareness and the added assistance will be a huge help. I think we all have labels of some sort - it's not about the label; it's about making the most of who we are!
