Roxy, big hugs to you, he has given you so much stress and acts so selfish with his bs act.
the accident did not kill him, he survived to drink another day and it is progressing.
you are calling the shots here? He will just pack up and go to mama's to drink there?
Losing his job means losing his pension?
That little jj fits right in, what a character , thank God for the pets....they keep you sane.