Originally Posted by
Dippy 
my good friend often says things like 'you have done really well, one won't hurt', or 'you haven't got a problem, I don't think you have, or, when I did drink last week ' it's good to see you letting your hair down'.
A good friend wouldn't say those things. A good friend wouldn't even consider saying those things. They obviously don't understand what is going on with you. It isn't like you are on a diet and can sneak a piece of cheesecake and all will be well tmr. Sheesh. You need to have a serious heart to heart with your friend. Next time you are out and anything like this is said to you, LEAVE.