i havent posted in a long long time, but i have to say to this one,,,,,RUN, RUN, RUN, as fast as you can.... you deserve better and you deserve happiness not a lifetime of lies, deceitfulness(sp), medical expenses, nightimes of waiting and watching and wondering if he is dead in a ditch or something,, and then being in your 40's wishing you could take it all back....
i hope you dont get mad at this,,, and remember this is only my opinion,, and i have lived with an alcoholic and drug addict for all of my adult life..
i hope you make the right decision for you.. just remember you are worth something...you deserve happiness and not heartache.. and believe me the money can be gone in 2 seconds.... the more they drink they more they need to get that "drunk"... but then i am bitter as you can probably tell.. others here can give you more rational answers.. but please please think about it before you invest your life.......