My H family are all recovering and some of the really close ones like Mother and Brother have between 15-20 years clean between them and they no longer go to meetings or anything but are sober and know my H is active and using they know where meetings are bc they told me!! They never even ask him about his addiction. Very sad ...
I went straight to my H Family first Mother/Brother/Sister I cant say any of those 3 people did anything to help at all!! Kind of crazy and cruel if you ask me. I wouldn't be able to be around my sibling without at least giving him a loving word of advice for the better!!Let alone my own son!!! Makes us think what did we do that so bad to the inlaws that they just love to see us suffer .. Geez I thought when things were normal you all liked me!! They claim that he has to reach out for help first ... All crap!!