As I said in another post earlier, blood really is thicker than water. It was a huge shock to me that my XAH's family is acting the way they are but it is what it is. They know he caused this and in my opinion are upset that they have to deal with him now. I was really hurt by it at first, but is also backs up the theory that maybe the apple does not fall far from the cart?!
Anyways....hugs to you. Keep on keeping on, establish your own support system without them.
XXX