Originally Posted by
CarrieBear 
His dad helped find a good attorney, he does have this to face not me BUT it.impacts me and our son, so I am getting involved. He has a court date next week and.we will find out more becore then maybe a plea agreement? I wish I already knew what this doctor will recommend, we've all been looking at options mostly Im worried about the oxy and his staying off it for good. i think hes been off about a week now. but not sure its even 100%
The more you and his dad are involved in trying to help him and give him a soft landing and protect him from his consequences, the less incentive he will have to clean up his act.
Are there steps you can take for yourself to minimize the impact this has on you and your son?
Have you been to Alanon? That's a good place to learn how to separate your responsibilities from his. Take care.