Originally Posted by
maggies 
Thank you everyone. I tend to get very defensive of my family issues with my won family also. It is what it is I guess. I'm taking small steps to get out of the situation though.
Good for you for seeing and recognizing that. Things that cause friction and difficulty for your relationships are things you can work on especially in therapy. Therapist can help you identify why and figure new and better ways to cope. Nothing is in stone.
When is the appointment?