Julia,
I am holding up okay. My husband also got 3 years probation. He started a new job today in Austin and it appears it's one he will really like. He said to tell you thanks for the support and that he will write when he gets a chance. This job has him working 12 hours days, which will at least keep his mind busy with work and not much time to wonder.
I know the wonderful man under that addiction and I know he wants to beat this. I have taken precautions as necessary to protect the kids and I, but my love for him is unconditional.
Txred