Excellent post, Memphis. Thanks.
Happy, he wasn't out partying, just getting a bite to eat and probably letting his friends know he's moving out of town. I know I sprung this on him, so I'm willing to give him some time to move out. I don't think he's trying to drag anything out, just that he hasn't really planned it very well. But then he hasn't had much time to plan, so I can't fault him there.
He IS being nice about things and I'm thankful for that. A lot of people when facing situations like this can turn into real azzhats and he hasn't done that.