I am working on getting the doctors to release her dx to her. BPD typically have substance abuse issues, self medicating, extreme trust issues. They i realize people one moment, and loathe them the next. They can go into severe depression or a range depending base on personality type because you ask if they turned a light off.
BPD require emotional caretakers in order to function at some level of normalcy.
She is on disability, but her jobs were all low pay so disability is low. I am going to look into substance and alcohol addiction support resources in our state.
Sorry I have been so slow to respond. Have been reading and going non stop last several days.
Just to be clear.. not all A and AA are also BPD, but almost all BPDs have substance issues
Thank you all for hanging in with me.... I am so blessed to have found such amazing people here.
Firefall is feeling very mushy. Much mushy for SR friends