When I first joined SR, I was in such denial about so much. There were a group of posters that shook me to my core to wake me up. I didn't like them at first, lol. There were also some very kind posters to comfort me. I am equally thankfully for both.
All the above the above posters had very strong recoveries, I think that's what made the difference for and to me.
Great question. Thank you!!