I know that when I first found this forum and started posting, I was surprised that some folks suggested that I might be providing a less than ideal solution for my teenage daughter. You might say that I even took some offense, as. I truly have her best interests at heart. So, I appreciate your efforts to present the issue in the kindest manner possible. I don't think any sober parent would like to be told that they are doing exactly the wrong thing for their children's wellbeing.
Although, my DD is no longer a youngster (17), my plans are to move us both from the home in May, when school is over for the summer. We should have a year of peace for her, which is better than none.