You follow no one is telling you anything is some how bad or wrong? It just looks like coloring outside the lines from a Hard Line perspective.
They did not stutter on that Tradition 7, "as we practice this principles in all our affairs"
". . . ought to be fully self-supporting . . . "
And sure not saying hang around the Crazy Lady job, either.
Goes for any/everyone -- Just make sure that if he/she/they fall off the planet tomorrow -- your life goes on.