Hammer

You follow no one is telling you anything is some how bad or wrong? It just looks like coloring outside the lines from a Hard Line perspective.

They did not stutter on that Tradition 7, "as we practice this principles in all our affairs"

". . . ought to be fully self-supporting . . . "

And sure not saying hang around the Crazy Lady job, either.

Goes for any/everyone -- Just make sure that if he/she/they fall off the planet tomorrow -- your life goes on.