I have some rental property income every month, and yesterday I talked with a friend I used to babysit for who wants me to start helping her again for a little cash. I have money saved so it wouldn't be a dire situation immediately. I know I'm putting a lot of trust in my BF, but even if we weren't together I'd be doing this. Regardless of what I get from him I'll still be okay.
It's time to get away from this toxic job! I've struggled financially before and am no stranger to cutting corners. I know I'm taking a huge chance but I am not getting any younger.
It will all work out somehow.