Very insightful. I guess that's half the battle.
It's been a long time since I was in school but I can't say it affected me that way after I left home. While still in high school yes. Just being in the principals office for a good reason would send me spinning and make me uncooperative. Fear of authority because you never knew which way it would go from the alcoholic. But after high school not so much.
It did carry over at work for a long time. Any boss would make me uncomfortable and I invariably switched jobs as often as I could, under the pretense of climbing up. Eventually just made my own business so I wouldn't have to deal with bosses.